Also weird stuff about food...

-youre gaining weight

-youre too skinny

-eat everything on your plate

-you cant leave the table until..

-don't you know your grandparents were starving in the war in Europe

-dont you know your grandparents were starving in the depression

-dont you know there are children starving in Africa

Also when parents lay their traumas on their kids...umm get a counsslor. Its not your kids job to listen to your traumas.